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When You Worry About Your Adult Child November 15, 2017

Posted by Danna Beal in 1, Emancipation, Inner Peace, Love, Relationships.
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I shared the following message with a coaching client a year ago who was having fear and anxiety about her grown child and her life choices.  Six months later I realized the message was for me when my adult son broke his neck in a mountain biking accident. Before I go further, I want to add that he is on a path of healing and wellness due to the love from family and friends, great doctors, and his own resiliency and positive attitude.

But for me, as a mother, it was an excruciatingly painful time, especially in the uncertain time in the first few weeks. Maintaining an alignment with my divine source was a daily practice and some days for me, it was almost impossible due to my fears. The message below, as well as love and support from my family and friends, helped me.  I had to read it and focus on it many, many times, but it shifted my limited view that was coming from a mother’s eyes, to one of trust and respect for my adult son’s courage and belief in himself.

Here is the message:

Children rarely follow the path their parents have envisioned for them. Each child has many twists and turns in the road to and throughout adulthood. Every child is really the prodigal son, in a sense, in that each must take his or her own journey.

When you love your children deeply you can mistakenly believe you know what is best for them, even when they are adults. It is deep love, predicated by a desire to keep them safe, that creates the illusion that telling them what to do will protect them from their own lives.  You only want for their happiness and survival in what appears to be a scary world. What is not usually understood is that the child is an equal soul and has his/her own journey to be followed based on the needs of his/her own chosen destiny.

If you worry about your adult children, this message and consequent understanding should give you some relief. You cannot really impact your children’s choices based on your own fears and desires, but you can inspire and fortify their courage by demonstrating faith in them to make the right choices for themselves. Offering unconditional love but not responsibility for their decisions– no matter how their choices appear to you, is the ultimate gift you can give them. When asked, it is appropriate to offer your suggestions and wisdom but still, emphasizing that they make their own choices.  Demonstrate trust that they will make the best choices for themselves. Trust that your children’s decisions are part of their experience—not right or wrong, no matter how it appears to you.

Admonishments and warnings about negative consequences to your adult child’s life are based on your own fears. It is out of love that you give your opinions, but they can be received as criticism or lack of confidence in them. In some cases, it can create a breach and an alienation in the relationship. You are learning one of life’s most difficult lessons—letting go and allowing a child its natural birthright and responsibility to follow his/her chosen path, even when it appears careless, risky, or mistaken. It is a difficult lesson because parents so love their children, and as human beings, the desire is protect them.

The release comes when parents tell their children that they trust them to make the best decisions for their own lives and, as parents, they wish only the best for them.  If you, as a parent, offer an opinion and it is rejected, it helps to explain that you recognize and acknowledge that they must make their own choices.  Your children’s life decisions are theirs to make and they will face their own results—those that may appear good or bad to you, but are all, ultimately, part of their awakening. Resist the unconscious desire to project your own worries and fears on your children.

All the love parents feel does not give them the ability or the responsibility to usurp their children’s power. Parents do not have the vision to see what is truly best for their children’s soul journeys.  Views through a parent’s eyes cannot see the perspective that comes from a higher spiritual vantage. Parents often maintain an image of their child that is no longer accurate.  Letting go of the limited image from a parent’s eyes and seeing a child as an adult is a difficult but rewarding transition.  The good news is that your only work is loving each child’s own heart and letting go of fear. And as we free our children, we free ourselves.

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Aligning with Love, Inspiration, and Miracles May 26, 2017

Posted by Danna Beal in 1, Authentic Power, Channeling, Love, Personal Freedom.
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As you relax into LOVE and Presence, divine messages are easily accessible, just awaiting your beckoning. How often have you been unaware that right beside you, in an instant, is everything you need or ever wanted and is being offered to you?

All that you require has been awaiting your acknowledgment, extending to you LOVE and a virtual communication of joy and happiness.  All you need do is offer your presence and allow the messages to float into your consciousness to be written down and reviewed at any moment you may falter or have doubts.  The energy soaring through you is mightier than anything you can generate on your own, relying only on your ego and limited mental thoughts. Trust is the brilliant and inescapable path to guidance.  Trusting with a fixed focus on the now moment, prevents fear arising that is ever-lurking in the background, waiting to grip you at the slightest opportunity. The old pattern of fear has a well-worn path causing resistance and, therefore, blocking the powerful messages awaiting you .

The doubting mind is very powerful in influencing you to disregard anything that is not logical and perceived in the normal, everyday style.  Your spiritual guidance is a very subtle, yet magnificently powerful voice, urging you to stop and be aware—to stop and be awake—to open your eyes to another world that is so brilliant everything else pales in comparison.  Yet, you continue to be beguiled and mesmerized by the illusion of reality—the human drama of pain and suffering, blame and shame. Dear hearts, your help is right beside you, like a fluttering breeze, gently easing and relaxing you on a summer day.  Your deepest desires are known to us and we want to assist in every way.  Your joy is our joy, your bliss is our bliss, your satisfaction is our satisfaction—why would we ever refuse you?  We are joined, we are one, and we are LOVE.

The world is in such turmoil but you are part of the unraveling of the grip of tension throughout the world.  As you shift your attention away from fear and onto the presence of LOVE, you assist others in doing the same. As you shift into the higher frequency of joy,  you emanate this energy wherever you go. If you realized how powerful you are, you would be astounded! You would never hold back in fear or self-recrimination.  You would honor the beautify and LOVE within, offering only LOVE to everyone you meet. How could that be difficult? Why would you not want to do this?  Too often distractions, with momentary satisfactions, are so easily available.  As human beings, you are often easily dissuaded from going forth on your magnificent journey by being waylaid with small and brief destinations that offer short-lived or disappointing outcomes.  Vow to be open and present to LOVE today and thrust forward into your shimmering destiny.

Channeling Event — Dec. 10 at 1 PM in Bellevue November 30, 2016

Posted by Danna Beal in Channeling, Love, Spiritual Energy.
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johnI am excdanna-scarf-small-200x200ited to announce a channeling event in the Bellevue, Seattle area for those who might be interested in learning to connect with their inner guidance, channel the Divine, or find some spiritual intuitive answers. My friend, John Smallman, channel for Jesus through John and author of A Saul Book, will be in Seattle on Saturday, Dec. 10, at 1 PM.  John has thousands of followers throughout the world and has been posting his blogs since 1994. My Twelve Wise Ones have been dictating to me since 1981 and is the source and information that is the basis of my books, articles and international talks on spirit in business. Together, we will share our experiences and he will guide you through steps for illuminating your own inner guidance that is awaiting you. If you currently are receiving your own guidance but would like to enhance it, this may clarify your natural ability. So bring pen and paper.

The actual address will be announced but most likely be held in downtown Bellevue, WA. Saturday the traffic is light if you are coming across a bridge.

TO REGISTER-Either email me at danna@dannabeal.com that you are coming or click on the contact form that you are coming. We will let you know the address soon as we are confirmed.

I am asking a suggested donation of $25 for the opportunity to meet John while he is in town but if you aren’t able, please come anyway.

About John Smallman

John was born in England, has traveled worldwide as an international pilot, is the father of three grown children and currently lives in New Hampshire. He leads A Course in Miracles class in New Hampshire and has taught channeling classes there. He has followers from all over the world who are reading his blogs with the beautiful messages from Saul and Jesus through John. John is also the author of A Saul Book.

John’s blogs are:

https://johnsmallman2.wordpress.com/

https://johnsmallman.wordpress.com/

About Danna Beal

Danna lives in Bellevue where she is an author (The Extraordinary Workplace), international speaker, workshop leader, and coach. She has spoken to over 500 businesses and conferences on Replacing Fear with Trust and Compassion in the Workplace.

Her blog — Messages from Twelve Wise One blog is:

https://thetwelvewiseones.com/

We hope you can come. Let us know by Dec. 5 if possible although we will accept people up to the date.

The Wellspring of Genius: Creativity Itself November 13, 2016

Posted by Danna Beal in Authentic Power, Universal Love.
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When you don’t rely on Universal Love flowing through you, you are working at a different level–the level of the ego, with such a small and weak vision and voice. Remind yourself when you are present and aligned with Universal Love that all your efforts will be magnified, amplified, fortified, and elevated to a level unattainable by the ego. The Universal Power of Love removes all self-doubt and strengthens your resolve with energy, joy, and optimism.  Trusting in Love results in fruition–a natural state of manifestation occurring when you are aligned with Love. Why work so hard in fear when you have the abilities and expansive Power of Love available to you? Rely on nothing less. Know that Source is masterful and will take you to heights your ego cannot even imagine. Be free and create from the wellspring of genius, creativity itself. Let down your walls of defense (disguised as self-recrimination) to allow the love to enter and fulfill all your hopes and dreams. You are the one who can achieve them. It is your destiny.

Stand for Truth May 26, 2010

Posted by Danna Beal in Authentic Power, Emancipation, Planetary Evolution.
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Dear Lightworkers,

Prepare for a journey of mythical proportions. As a leader during these historical times, take a stand for Truth even when others cower and run for cover.  Your energy is needed to elevate understanding and bring about clarity to others. Vow to be a witness to Truth and be aware of false prophets. You are delivering a message of compounding truth and it is an honor and privilege to be here creating a new world.

Join with us in this pilgrimage. Walk the line of hope and faith. It is narrow for few have dared, but those who do can be a guiding light providing assistance to those who are blind and confused.  All of heaven awaits you and you are compelled to follow this path that you chose; not from obligation but from your spiritual desire to do so.  Your path is primordial and you are destined to be here now at this time. You cannot fail; you cannot fail!

How do you do your part in the plan?

As you liberate yourself you liberate others to their inner greatness.  Having the courage to face your own inner fears and doubts will lead to your most glorious self.  And as you honor and forgive yourself, you are able to give up judgment and condemnation of others.  Holding on to vengeance toward others is really just a method for expelling pain that you have caused yourself, through self judgment.  Don’t mistake personal guilt as humility or as a spiritual quality.  Stand up, love and honor yourself as you were created to be.  True compassion for others comes from strength–not weakness.  Compassion arises out of acknowledgment and then forgiveness of your own mistakes and inner doubts.

As you love and honor yourself, you break the intertwined chains of reactions and counter-reactions that are holding individuals in a web of egos.  Much like breaking a thread in a sweater, you help unravel the world wide web of pain, suffering and condemnation.  As you take down your own walls you make it safe for others to do the same.  The beautiful process of self acceptance leads to acceptance of all others.  Deliverance from pain and suffering is your goal; for yourself and others. Pledge allegiance to the plan of which you are a part. 

We honor you, we assist you, and we serve you.

-The Twelve Wise Ones

Proclaim Truth December 11, 2009

Posted by Danna Beal in Inner Peace, Personal Freedom, Personal Restoration Plan.
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Dear Lightworkers,

Prepare for a journey of mythical proportions. As a leader during these historical times, take a stand for Truth even when others cower and run for cover.  Your energy is needed to elevate understanding and bring about clarity to others. Vow to be a witness to Truth and be aware of false prophets. You are delivering a message of compounding truth and it is an honor and privilege to be here creating a new world.

Join with us in this pilgrimage. Walk the line of hope and faith. It is narrow for few have dared, but those who do can be a guiding light providing assistance to those who are blind and confused.  All of heaven awaits you and you are compelled to follow this path that you chose; not from obligation but from your spiritual desire to do so.  Your path is primordial and you are destined to be here now at this time. You cannot fail: you cannot fail!

How do you do your part in the plan?

As you liberate yourself you liberate others to their inner greatness.  Having the courage to face your own inner fears and doubts will lead to your most glorious self.  And as you honor and forgive yourself, you are able to give up judgment and condemnation of others.  Holding on to vengeance toward others is really just a method for expelling pain that you have caused yourself, through self judgment.  Don’t mistake personal guilt as humility or as a spiritual quality.  Stand up, love and honor yourself as you were created to be.  True compassion for others comes from strength–not weakness.  Compassion arises out of acknowledgment and then forgiveness of your own mistakes and inner doubts.

As you love and honor yourself, you break the intertwined chains of reactions and counter-reactions that are holding individuals in a web of egos.  Much like breaking a thread in a sweater, you help unravel the world wide web of pain, suffering and condemnation.  As you take down your own walls you make it safe for others to do the same.  The beautiful process of self acceptance leads to acceptance of all others.  Deliverance from pain and suffering is your goal; for yourself and others. Pledge allegiance to the plan of which you are a part. 

We honor you, we assist you, and we serve you.

-The Twelve Wise Ones

The Future December 1, 2009

Posted by Danna Beal in Global Oneness, Spiritual Awakening.
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Dear Lightworkers,

Believe not in what has transpired but, instead, in what is about to come into being. Follow your dreams without hesitancy and place value only on the vision of the future. Countless endeavors by many to reach new levels of understanding are necessary to make the transformation. Prepare the way for a new future everywhere you go.

The economy has led to local disarray and confusion. Chaos and violence are the result of disintegrating values. Pressure mounts and disruptions occur. Mayhem precedes the procurement of the new world.

The purest form of love comes from knowing we are all one and this can only be achieved with momentous waves of compassion. Powerful steps are needed to help bring about a new way of relating to others with compassion. Polite gestures are not enough. Choosing peace and love for one another is the path to a new world. You have an exalted message and you are deeply supported.  Allow the infusion of light energy to come through you and emanate to others. It is time to wake up and awaken everyone around you.

-The Twelve Wise Ones

Powerful Journey Out of Darkness November 21, 2009

Posted by Danna Beal in Global Oneness, Spiritual Awakening.
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Dear Lightworkers,

We are in a powerful journey out of darkness.  Your passage is not only deserved, it was chosen before you got here.  You will perform the steps you said you would do.  Your journey is about to take you on a path of epic proportions.  The power behind this process is accelerating and you are being prepared.

Joy will replace the pain as the swelling waves arrive with a complete departure from the waves of the past.  Destruction of old structures is necessary while alignment with the new energy occurs.   Choice is available for those willing to awaken.  Past experiences have provided ample opportunities for expression of a new way.  Pride goes before the fall.

The erosion of human values and the growing lack of respect and compassion for fellow humans have led to the massive shift.  Within the collective consciousness are two themes; dark and light.  Within ourselves are two themes.  As we change ourselves, we affect the collective consciousness.  We are interconnected and it is a false belief that we are separate.   Light has been in the minority—the collective egos have been running the world.  False power rules the worlds with the intention to weaken others to feel small and helpless.  As you change, you change the whole. 

Projects that were stalled will now be released.  With angelic grace,  move forward with a tidal wave of energy.  Go forth with determination, proudly expanding the hopes and desires for many people.   Broad measures are being taken on behalf of you who are here to do God’s work.

-The Twelve Wise Ones

Antidote for Poisonous Ideas November 13, 2009

Posted by Danna Beal in Enemies, Global Oneness, Relationships.
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Dear Lightworkers,

Tremendous efforts are needed to dissuade the common theme of attack and overcome held by so many people.  Peace can never come from overcoming others.  Understanding  relationships and finding radical new ways to achieve peace are necessary for the pursuant of freedom.

It is important to recognize the dynamic of mutual engagement.  Whether between individuals, groups or whole nations, it takes both sides to hold the relationship together.  As an example, a shoe lace is intertwined as it laces the shoe with adjoining pressure, pulling the parts of the shoe together.  This automatically tightens the grip of both sides of the shoe.  This joint pressure holds the shoe together.  But when the pressure becomes unbearable, the lace breaks—“the tie that binds them”.  This breaking or bursting is usually see as the fault of the other but is actually the result of both sides pulling against each other—intertwined needs and emotions that keep them engaged.  It is not love that binds them; it is fear.  

 Trying to overcome the other person, group or nation, by intensifying the pressure always results in disruptions and even wars. Warring nations have been held in the same pull of intertwined relationships for centuries.

Poisoned attitudes and ideas for achieving supremacy are delivered to each other and through the media.  Poisonous ideas, like venom, need an antidote to dilute their power.  This passage of time requires people taking a stand for peace, with conviction;  not just politely standing by waiting to see what will happen.

When you pronounce Truth it will be recognized. Freedom is just that—freedom from fear and freedom of speech.  Persevere in spreading a message of peace, love and harmony. Do not give others authority over you or be beguiled by false platitudes.

Why are people afraid to take a stand?  It stems from fear of punitive action from those in authority.  Childhood experiences of being scolded by a teacher or older authority, have conditioned people to be afraid to speak the truth or take a stand against the prevailing culture.  Reclaim your own authority, your inner spiritual greatness.

Ask the question, when does a defense become the offence?  When are we the perpetrators, and when are we the perpetrated upon?  Every time we attack another, be it in families, work or the world, we tighten the interlaced pressure that will finally burst.

Be a shining example to the world of acceptance, compassion and integrity. Open hearts with a divine message, bless those before you and forgive your enemies.  Prepare a way for a new generation and be passionate in your commitment to deliver Truth. Truth will cut through the confusion like the sun breaking through the clouds. Bask in the sunshine of our approval and share that same light of love and forgiveness with others.  Blessed are you who do God’s work.

-The Twelve Wise Ones

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